Mandatory good stuff (there has to be love)
Honest and direct
Emotional intelligence
Respectful/good manners
Hot (green flag)
Open minded
Trusts me fully
Cool (a nice bonus)
Dresses revealing
Is not from my country
Preference (okay if it's not there)
Is a gamer
Silly positives (omg he's so cute)
Does not live in my country
Tomboy
Talks about themselves a lot
Still uses sextoys in relationship
Neutral
Silly negatives (if he plays Minecraft he's out)
Is Japanese
(While dating or in a relationship) They've said that if presented with the opportunity to sleep with their fictional crush, they would take it
Is Portuguese
Preference (can tolerate, would prefer they don't)
Watches reality TV
Oh.. (orange flag, will work with it)
Is firmly against clothed sex
Always sides with me
Uses a lot of emojis
Likes doing cosplay
Asks for a threesome with a woman (she's bi or curious)
Weird fetish (feet)
Drinks
They enjoy ass play
Potentially negotiable dealbreakers (red flag-ish)
They are very into traditional gender roles ( man primarily works, woman stays home, raises kids )
Posts on social media a lot
Has cheated in a past relationship
They've slept with their current close friend
Comments politics frequently
Non negotiable NOs (run)
Super carrier oriented (nurse etc)
They like to have a beer everyday after work
Enjoys pegging
Dank offensive humor
Asks for a threesome with a guy
Created May 14, 2026
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