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Red or green flags

Ick
LYING. NO.
No attraction. At all.
Still talks to exes like they're friends
Only compliments your body
Dismissive
HATES. CATS. THIS. IS. A. CRIME.
No follow-up questions
No common hobbies
Can't remember dates... especially important ones
Makes sexist/racist/ableist jokes... come on now
ILY too early (within a month)
Believes too much in astrology/crystals and shit
You don't like their friends
Backtalks certain individuals who don't deserve it
Can't hold them accountable
No boundaries - especially with friends
Controlling
Superiority complex
Is a hypocrite and doesn't know it or acknowledge it
Cheater (in games - for no reason)
Does drugs (for the sake of doing drugs)
Oversharing to literally anyone
Doesn't want you to get to know your family
Drinks... to get drunk... a lot...
Low/no empathy
Cheater (in relationships)
Politically uninformed/doesn't care about the news
Uses AI for something a human can/should
Spreads rumours (or worse: unwarrented lies)
A music-less life is no life at all
Actively enjoys American football
Isolates you from the people you love
Isolates you from the hobbies you love
Owns guns
Bad hygeine
Porn watcher
Stalker
Let's Talk
Jealousy
Avoids confrontation
Doesn't want you to get to know your friends
Doesn't get your references
Backtalks certain individuals who do deserve it
Lack of filter?
Treats you like their therapist
Trust issues
Not being a giver
Different political beliefs
Wants to do e v e r y t h i n g together
Victim complex
Apologises too much for things they didn't do
Lots of sex
A good liar (should I be worried?)
Hoarder
Has to know my passwords
Never left their hometown
Eh Fine
Forgetful
Slow texter
Bad driver
Parent issues
Passive aggressive
Constant contact
Underdresses on dates
Bad at giving compliments
Only has a few friends
No photos
LikeS Harry Potter
More Info
Religious
Apologises too much for something they did
Protective
Talks about sex life with friends
Recently single
Close with family
Doesn't plan dates
Wants kids
Bad grammar
Lots of naps
Bad tipper
Unemployed
Doesn't want kids
Has no prior relationship experience
Idrc
Bad chef
Picky eater
Is slow (me ngl)
Bad at gift giving
Needs lots of attention
Cries easily (or a lot, or both)
Has allergies
No sex
Can't take a compliment
LikeD Harry Potter
Needs reassurance
Never uses pet names
Hot Take
Has a lot of strong opinions
Uses pet names
Has animated crush
Yas
Prioritises health
Lots of stuffies (cute ones no taxidermy)
Has a lot of diverse friends
Gym time
Plans dates
Likes history
Likes personal time/space
Knows all important times or dates
Has boundaries
Created Jul 4, 2026
Navigating the dating world can feel like a minefield, but this tier list is here to help you spot the potential pitfalls and the shining stars. From "Red or Green Flags" to "LYING. NO." and "HATES. CATS. THIS. IS. A. CRIME.", we're ranking everything from minor quirks to major dealbreakers.

Wondering if "Slow texter" is a green flag for giving you space or a red one for disinterest? Or if "Close with family" is a sign of a strong support system or a major red flag? We're diving deep into everything from "No attraction. At all." to "Plans dates" and "Controlling" to help you decide what's a keeper and what's a runner. Let's sort the good from the bad!

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