By Brad Eade

Most Intimate Tier

Very intimate Tier

Quite intimate Tier

Not very intimate Tier

Not at all intmate Tier

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Relationship behaviours Tier List

Most Intimate
Tongue kiss
Planning a romantic holiday
Having a conversation about when you think you will be ready to have sex
Very intimate
Kiss on the cheek
Kiss on the lips
Sleeping in the same bed
Giving or receiving a massage
Kissing in public
Snuggling up together
Quite intimate
Saying I love you
Sharing secrets
Giving presents to each other
Holding hands
Hugging
Flirting
Getting ‘butterflies’ when around someone
Not very intimate
Dancing together
Talking on the phone
Eating lunch together
Share your past
Looking into someone’s eyes during a conversation
Going to the movies
Cook for one another
Watching them play sport
Not at all intmate
Texting each other
Created Apr 27, 2026
Place the behaviours into tiers based on how close you would need to be with someone to do the behaviour, or what stage of a relationship you would feel ok with the behaviour.